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Posted by bloodtonic 28 May 2006 08:36

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Quoted from: McElroy

I don't know.. It just feels good to me!

it makes a pretty big difference. either way, you do have a sexual addiction which may involve diviation. while i am not against sex its self, here are a few things to realize:
having that many sexual partners can be very dangerous when it comes to stds. im not just talking aids. there are plenty of other sexually transmitted diseases that can be just as harmful over time. it is very important to watch your safty in what you are doing.
secondly, while it seems you do not have an emotional attatchment to the people you have sex with (which would be normal for you, since it seems that sex is more of an exciting thing than emotional) right now, after time many men in situations like this fall into a depression because the feel no woman will actually love them (this isnt something that happens right away. its more down the line when you get to an age where you wish to be cared for). and it does suck for guys who have been extreamly sexually active, because it will make a lot of women less interested in ever starting a real relationship with you.
the depression that comes from feeling a lack of love can sometimes cause men to become violent towards others or themselves. sexual fantasies can become violent against their partners - because now they are no longer just a sexual object, but people who cause you pain.

i guess, over all what i am trying to say is that you should really examine all of your emotions and reactions to these fantasies, and to how you feel when you carry them out. protect your body. and keep in mind how your future self will feel because of your actions now. just stay very aware of psycological reactions to things. some of us out there just have a predisposition to doing some really screwed up stuff - only we can protect ourselves.